Thursday, July 1, 2010

A Day of Reflection: The Day After

Well this has been a rather different day since our world wind days at Methodist. Stephanie and I woke up at 3:30 this morning and left at 3:45 for the airport. Amazingly, there were tons of people at the airport and thanks to my friend Barbara for giving us the heads up on the crowds, we arrived almost 2 hours before Stephanie's flight to Maine. The flight was on time to Newark and thankfully with the short layover, her Portland flight was late getting to the gate. Her luggage made it and all is good with the world. She arrived in Portland only 30 minutes behind schedule which is awesome.

We are extremely proud of Stephanie! Peter and I asked her for a few weeks of her Summer to complete 2 online courses at Lone Star Community College and to plan and participate in a 3 week internship at St. Luke's Hospital in The Woodlands with Dr. Christina Frome MD, an OB/GYN......Stephanie completed the courses with A's in both courses and had the most amazing and memorable time in the OR with Dr. Frome and the other surgeons. So off she goes to spend time with her boyfriend, Ken and his family.....So excited for her....she so deserves it.

Peter went to work this morning and I walked Winnie and ran my mileage and walked with my neighbor and friend, Jeannie. Answered a few emails and reflected on the last couple of months of our new journey Peter is embarking on. I feel like I am in a fog but it was a good weather day to reflection on this time in our new lives now.

Things I know for sure:

1. Dr. Appel wears a different bow tie each day to work.

2. The ALS team that Dr. Appel has put together at the Methodist Neurological Institute are the BEST in the world.

3. Do your homework when assigned.

4. Appreciate every day you have with your spouse, your loved ones, your friends and the people you come in contact with each day because today is a GIFT.

5.Accept the love and willingness for your friends to help you even if you think you can do it on your own.

6. Look for the miracles in your life that have touched you so deep that you have taken them for granted.

7. Make sure you have bathed everyday because you never know when you will have a gold star placed on your forehead.

8. Make memories everyday......

9. Know that God will lead you down the right path and he knows what he is doing so just sit back and enjoy the ride.

10. Love the one you are with forever and ever.

These are by no means the end of my list or in any order according to importance. In any given day, you could mix them up and prioritize the differently and your outcome would still be the same. We hope through this personal ALS blog we have set up that you can feel the love and support we have for each other and will continue down this different path together forever. Peter and I were meant to be together since we were in the rip age of 14 and 17 and with the beautiful "masterpiece" of our daughter, Stephanie we will remain strong and fight till the very end. Thank you so much for joining our team.

Our next set of clinics won't be until October 1, 2010 but we will write in our ALS blog about every week with updates and new findings. So please check it and see what is happening. Thank you again for all our followers and for the ones that haven't signed in but are reading and keeping up with our progress. You know the saying, "it takes a village", that is a true statement.

Love to you all, DeeAnn

17 comments:

  1. DeeAnn & Peter,

    Thanks for teaching us what life is all about.

    Mom & Dad

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  2. What a lovely list – so true for any one of us, no matter what is going on in our lives. (I especially appreciate #4, 5 & 9.) Life and love are two such very precious gifts. We need to do everything we can to experience both to the fullest, each and every day.

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  3. Thank you. We love you Peter and DeeAnn!

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  4. Peter, WE will add you and your family to our prayer list...God Bless you and stay strong...Chronic conditions touch us all in so many ways. Jack Foy (BHS'78) Kat Foy (BHS '81) and Jon Foy..BHS want to be but...life has is in Round Rock! :D

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  5. DeeAnn, this moved me to tears . . . but good ones :-)! Thank you so much for sharing your struggle, your journey and your thoughts. You, Peter and Stephanie are such a wonderful, amazing family, and I am truly honored to count you as a friend!
    I am keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers every day. GO TEAM ANDERSON!!!!!

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  6. Dear DeeAnn and Peter,
    This is Tonya Bowman Parker. Debi Soto Fincher sent something out via Greta to let us know about this new obstacle in Peter's life. I just want you to know that I will most definitely be in prayer for Peter and his family. God is the Great Physician and nothing is too big for Him. And I know that you already know that but just a reminder. Your blog is beautiful and I will keep up with your journey. I have a motivational blog if you're ever bored and need something to do.
    www.motivatedtosoar.com
    Rest in Him,
    Tonya

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  7. Thank you for sharing another update on your blog. Your 10 facts are so beautifully stated. DeeAnn. If you aren't already a college writing professor, you SHOULD BE!!!

    So thankful to hear that Peter is back to work--Peter, you are an amazing man! It is no wonder that DeeAnn fell in love with you at the tender age of 14.

    Thank you for allowing us to be a part of the team. Yes, let's beat the Hell outa ALS.

    Blessings to you all.

    Bill, Paula & Ashlin

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  8. Peter and DeeAnn,
    What a beautiful, perfect place the world would be if it were filled with families like yours.
    Love, Mom and Dad

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  9. Hello Team! I found your blog through Dr. Young, and reposted on my fb wall. My friend gave me this link to send on to you: http://maryloukrauseneck.alscommunity.org/GroupSite/tabid/54/view/Default/Default.aspx

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  10. Pete! A blast from the past...its been awhile I know. I needed purpose in my prayer life. I'll gather up some prayer warriors here in North Texas and we'll rally for you and your family. Remember...He will never leave nor forsake you! Stay strong, stay focused...All the best.

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  11. And you will also have our church and prayer warriors in Richmond, TX praying for you....keep us updated and we'll keep the Anderson family on our prayer list at St. John's United Methodist Church in Richmond, TX. God Bless you all. Nancy Caldwell Volding

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  12. You are right on! Thanks for sharing your love and your journey.
    I love you all!
    donna

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  13. Ted's Comments
    First and foremost, all our thoughts and prayers are with Peter and his family. He has already accomplished so much on this Earth in less than fifty years. His most important asset is his wonderful family. Secondly, Peter knows he is loved and appreciated by so many loyal family and friends that will help him through his troubles. Finally, let me say how lucky we feel to be included in his circle and recieve DeeAnn's blog. Keep the words coming and know we will be with you all the way.

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  14. Dear DeeAnn and Peter
    You are just an amazing, beautiful family and I agree with your mom and dad that you are teaching us about life. God Bless you all and Go Team Anderson. Much love and prayers coming your way. Lesley

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  15. Peter and DeeAnn, what wonderful strength you have. The family photo is a happy photo and I got a grin when I saw all of you together. Peter, our God is Good. You know this. I am sending you all the best wishes and prayers I can gather here in Dallas. Many are sending positive thoughts and words of encouragement your direction. You deserve them all. This is a curve in life's road, but not the end of the road. God will wrap a blanket of warmth around you. Fear nothing. Hugs to all of you.
    Neoma Salamon - Twining

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  16. It was a wondrous and memorable event that Peter and his ladies had the event to spend a vacation at the Door County cabins in late July. To hear that Peter participated in all the traditional Anderson family activities was so pleasing to all of us. I am sure that this year's vacation will last in everybody's memory bank for many years. Congratulations to you Peter for your determination in keeping up with your life's activities, and may you continue to do so for a long time. Best wishes to DeeAnn and Stephanie and keep up the good work. We continue to think of you in our prayers.

    The Oppels

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  17. Great blog Mrs. Anderson!

    You're all in our prayers. I especially liked #4: Appreciate every day you have with your loved ones, your friends and the people you come in contact with each day because today is a GIFT. Sometimes I think I forget that!

    Love you guys! BTHO ALS! -Kathleen

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